Why we coach you separately
A lot of couples know the feeling of having the same argument over and over. The topic changes from week to week, and underneath it’s the same one.
With both of you in the room, it’s easy for a session to become a place to make your case. Each person is waiting for the coach to finally see it their way.
In your own sessions you can say what you actually feel without watching your partner’s face. We get curious about your part in it, like what you reach for when you’re hurt, or the thing you need and haven’t asked for yet.
Then you take that home. Very often, one person doing their own work is what changes the whole relationship. Here, both of you are doing it at the same time.